Everyday Complaining versus Retail Complaining: Prevalence, Perceptions, and Purposes

Authors

  • Robin M. Kowalski Clemson University
  • Olivia Palmieri Clemson University
  • Caroline R. Greco Clemson University
  • Francie Coleman Clemson University
  • Emma Aurilio Clemson University
  • Grace Drolet Clemson University
  • Savannah Diggett Clemson University
  • Camelia Williams Clemson University
  • Elizabeth Bouknight Clemson University
  • Willow Stewart Clemson University
  • Cora G. Dodson Clemson University

Keywords:

Complaining, Dissatisfaction, Complaining Propensity

Abstract

Complaining is ubiquitous in everyday life. However, most complaining research has examined only retail complaining. To expand research on everyday complaining, and to compare it to retail complaining, and using the online platform Prolific, participants in two studies answered questions about their experiences with complaining. Study 1 (n = 215) examined respondents’ experiences with both everyday and retail complaining, and Study 2 (n = 238) focused on everyday complaining, including individual difference predictors of complaining propensity. In Study 1, participants engaged in everyday complaining more frequently than retail complaining. Across studies, participants perceived they complained less than others and perceived their own complaints more positively than others. Motives for complaining were instrumental and expressive, but motives for not complaining reflected self-presentational concerns. In Study 2, complaining propensity correlated positively with private self-consciousness, chance locus of control, and neuroticism, and negatively with internal locus of control, mindfulness, agreeableness, and optimism. Implications for relationships and customer relations are discussed.  

Author Biographies

  • Olivia Palmieri, Clemson University

    Olivia Palmieiri is a student at Clemson University majoring in Biochemistry. 

  • Caroline R. Greco, Clemson University

    Caroline Greco is a graduate of Clemson University and Master's student in the Applied Psychology program at Clemson. 

  • Francie Coleman, Clemson University

    Francie Coleman is a student at Clemson University majoring in psychology. 

  • Emma Aurilio, Clemson University

    Emma Aurilio is a student at Clemson University majoring in Psychology. 

  • Grace Drolet, Clemson University

    Grace Drolet is a graduate of Clemson University with a B.S. degree in Psychology. 

  • Savannah Diggett, Clemson University

    Savannah Diggett is a graduate of Clemson University with a B.S. degree in Psychology.

  • Camelia Williams, Clemson University

    Camelia Williams is a graduate of Clemson University with a B.S. degree in Psychology. 

  • Elizabeth Bouknight, Clemson University

    Elizabeth Bouknight is a student at Clemson University majoring in Psychology. 

  • Willow Stewart, Clemson University

    Willow Stewart is a student at Clemson University majoring in Psychology. 

  • Cora G. Dodson, Clemson University

    Cora Dodson is a Ph.D. candidate in Industrial/Organizational Psychology at Clemson University

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2026-05-12